tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-84412950108467123842024-02-18T22:01:06.741-08:00Watermark FreiburgJon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.comBlogger60125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-82411162899974845592012-07-06T07:24:00.001-07:002012-07-06T09:59:42.456-07:00Courageous confrontation<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I learned from my <a href="http://growingothers.com/">mentor</a> that in most organizations (especially churches), <b>most people in authority would rather make rules than deal with a person directly.</b> It takes less time, effort and emotional energy to simply make a rule (which typically applies to a few people, or even a lone individual) than to sit down with a person and coach them through a weakness, blind spot, or failure.<br />
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<b>This sort of system simply develops mindless robots, not leaders.</b> Leaders think, followers do. Isn't the goal to get people doing the right thing simply because it's the right thing to do (and it makes sense), rather than because it's a punishable offense? If we'll courageously confront the behavior based on agreed-upon core values, people are more willing to cooperate. And they'll become a part of the solution, rather than a disconnected, disgruntled part of the problem.<br />
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<b>I took too long in confronting one member of our team</b> early on in our church planting journey. This person was quite dramatic and needed to be the center of attention, and it was getting frustrating to us and the rest of the team. Since I really felt they were <em>supposed</em> to be with us, I didn't want to just hammer them (which would have crushed them). I took things slowly and methodically... but never really got to the heart of the matter. To be honest, <b>it was the result of fear</b>... this person was a valuable part of our team (with incredible gifting... a real producer) and I didn't want to lose them. So I reasoned that if I took it slow I could keep them and salvage the relationship.<br />
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This turned out to be a mistake. I thought they would be with us a long time, but they left six weeks after I started "grinding off the rough edges." They found someone who was willing to stroke their ego and lead them to another church. <em>(Of course we sent them off with our blessing.)</em> As a result, I was never able to help them grow beyond this personality (character) flaw because I didn't want to hurt their feelings.<br />
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<b>We are called to use our influence to help sharpen the people around us.</b><em> (Just as iron sharpens iron, a person sharpens the character of his friend. - <a href="http://www.biblestudytools.com/cjb/proverbs/27-17.html">Proverbs 27:17</a>)</em> But I failed to do that with this individual.<br />
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Actually, in his amazing book "Good to Great", Jim Collins says that failure to confront, or as he puts it, "get the wrong people off the bus" hurts our credibility as leaders. And it can cause our top producers (who already realize that a change needs to take place) to be less satisfied and committed.<br />
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All said and done, <b>I wasn't showing this person or my other team members the respect they deserved.</b> After this person left I apologized to those affected, and also to the person. It's one thing to say we desire to help everyone reach their potential, but it's a totally different thing to actually be committed enough to do it. I have since determined to confront when the need arises, and teach my team how to do so biblically. And I've asked my staff to hold me accountable.<br />
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So how do you handle confrontation in your organization/workplace/church/family?<br />
<br />Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-8487480368554162832012-06-29T15:58:00.001-07:002012-06-30T00:31:15.837-07:00Those who make the journey with you...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I was going through some photos from our <b>Watermark launch team days</b>. It was fun to look back and see how far we've come.<br />
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One thing struck me, though. As I looked at one of the earliest launch team photos we have on the web I noticed that of the 10 people in the picture, <b>only six of us remain</b> in Watermark... my family and Tabea (one of our staff members).<br />
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One went to become a teacher in North Rhine-Westfalen. A young couple is back in the USA. Another is serving at her home church back in the Netherlands. The last one is still in Freiburg and we see her from time to time, but she just isn't involved anymore.<br />
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I remember one of my mentors telling me that <b>very few of those that start with you will complete the journey with you</b>. I knew this going into the church planting process... but today reminded me of just how true this is.<br />
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God brings some people into our lives for just a season. Our job is to encourage them to follow the God's path for their individual lives. We need to help them get where they're supposed to be... even if that isn't with us or our church.<br />
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Although not pictured here, one couple that helped us for the first year told us that their kids had made friendships with kids in another church through an after-school program, and they wanted to start attending that church. I know that pastor - he's a good guy. They'll be involved in a good church where their kids are happy. I was happy to give them our blessing. Actually, this couple expected us to tell them they were missing God's will, but we instead encouraged them to get involved in their new church<br />
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Another couple was "on loan" from their church for a year. They were an immense help, but felt that when their year was up they needed to get involved again with their home church. Others have moved for jobs or school, etc.<br />
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Some won't complete the journey because it's too tough, or because of disappointment or disillusionment, and that's okay too. As individuals from our launch team told us they weren't happy at Watermark anymore, or that "<b>things just don't feel the same as they used to</b>," we weren't surprised. Of course not... our church is growing! It's supposed to change, just like a baby is expected to grow.<br />
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As my mentor says, "<b>People will view the church in light of the size it was when they first came.</b>" If they joined the church or the team when we started (42 was our first month's average), they expected to have the same amount of access to us and to the other team members. We were one big happy family. We met at the church and at my office (Starbucks) on a regular basis. But as the church started to grow and more people got involved, this became more difficult.<br />
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Let me put it this way: <b>as we've grown, so has the number of relationships</b>... actually, the number of relationships increases exponentially for each new person involved. When you go from five people to six the number of relationships increases from 10 to 15 And the more people you add, the more complex this becomes.<br />
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With this in mind, it's easy to see why people become frustrated. It's harder and harder to have the close knit relationships we used to have... especially when our mission is to continually expand our relational circles. We have to be prepared for the fact that most of the people we start with won't complete the journey with us.<br />
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God asks us, though, to develop each person He sends to us, and to have them develop others. <b>We have to trust that when good people leave - especially those we've invested heavily in - He will send us others that are even better.</b><br />
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Remember... whatever we sow (plant) we will reap (harvest). (Galatians 6:7) If we want the right people to come to us, we need to be willing to release people to fulfill <em>their</em> destiny. In other words, <b>we need to pastor with open hands</b>... hands that welcome people when they come. And hands that release people (with a blessing) when they go.Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-34343698277990316392012-05-21T15:54:00.001-07:002012-05-21T16:03:04.384-07:00Giants in the land<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<p>The first 18 months of our church planting journey weren't easy, but they weren't hard either. God's amazing grace was there the entire time to help us everytime we ran into a snag. We could see His hands in action everywhere we looked.<br /></p>
<p>Well last summer I felt God speaking to me about our church. It was as if He was saying, "The grace you've been walking in is about to change." It felt as if we were the Israelites on the edge of the Promised Land. Everyday they experienced a fresh supply of manna. They didn't have to work for it. They didn't have to even pray about it. It was just there... every single day! That's exactly what it was like for us.<br /></p>
<p>But God was telling me that we were getting ready to enter the Promised Land. That this "no-work" blessing was going to change. He was clear, though, that we were going to be entering "a land flowing with milk and honey!" But we would have to work for it. The land would produce what we needed... even an abundance. <strong>But there would be effort involved</strong>.<br /></p>
<p>Let me tell you... He was right! Since the beginning of the year (2012) it's been a real struggle. Our staff and many of the members of our team and our church have had some real battles. <strong>I had forgotten something about the Promised Land... there are giants there.</strong> And we've seen them raise their ugly heads. At times we've felt like quitting, and it's been really tough to stay on task. But we know what God has called us to do... and we're determined to do it!<br /></p>
<p>These past few months have been a real time of soul-searching for our staff, our team and our church. It's almost as if we've come through the spiritual Winter season. There are beautiful sights to see in Winter (snow, etc), but it's cold and lonely... it seems like it will never end. But while on the outside everything seems dead, on the inside, things are getting ready for Spring. <strong>Without Winter there can be no Spring.</strong><br /></p>
<p>The good news is that we've seen God's blessing increase. More people are coming to Christ, more people are making fresh dedications of their lives to Him, more people are being filled with God's Spirit. And our influence is growing as rapidly as our attendance. Our Servolution and our Easter Egg Hunt opened the door for a local school to ask our church to help them rebuild some of their playground equipment. <strong>(This NEVER happens in Germany!!!)</strong><br /></p>
<p>I guess I'm writing this as a catharsis. Honestly, we're in a good place. It's been a tough, but good process. These times really force you to see where your faith is centered. Is it focused on "results" or finances, or is it focused on the One who called us to plant this church in the first place?<br /></p>
<p>If you're a church planter, be encouraged. There are tough times all along the journey. But God is there every step of the way. There will be marvelous opportunities to give up. But don't even allow yourself to entertain the thought of quitting. If you'll just stay the course, you'll see the prize!<br /></p>
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<br />Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-38689258562411306322012-05-11T02:11:00.001-07:002012-05-12T03:40:51.396-07:00Easter Egg Hunt<div style="text-align: center;">
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<a href="http://vimeo.com/40900849">Official Watermark Easter Egg Hunt Video</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/watermarkfreiburg">Watermark Freiburg</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com/">Vimeo</a>.</div>
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As a finale to our Servolution, we held a city-wide Easter Egg Hunt. We had 12,000 American easter eggs (had to be imported), which were filled with toys or candy. <a href="http://cornerstonelife.org/">Cornerstone Church</a> in Blue Springs, MO, USA sent a team of willing volunteers that worked with our church to stuff eggs, prepare for the Easter Sunday Carnival and stuff mailboxes with nearly 8000 invitations. We had a lot of fun together!<br />
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After we setup for the Egg Hunt we watched as a few people trickled in here and there. It was a bit disheartening at first... all that work for so little people. But we knew this was what God wanted us to do. About 15 minutes before the Egg Hunt was supposed to start people started coming in droves from all directions! All told, we saw about 1000 people show up... over 500 kids! It was amazing!!!<br />
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And the most significant part of the entire Easter Egg Hunt: at least 6 people came to Christ as a direct result. And we have now gained a reputation in the community for being a church that gives with no strings attached... just like Jesus did! A local school has even asked that we help them renovate some of their playground equipment because we've earned such a good reputation through serving. It pays rich dividends to obey what God tells you to do!<br />
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You can see more info on our Servolution by checking out <a href="http://watermarkfreiburg.blogspot.de/2012/03/servolution-challenge.html">this post</a>.<br />
<br />Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0Freiburg im Breisgau, Germany47.9990077 7.842104347.9140077 7.6841758 48.0840077 8.0000328tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-24629222965408881782012-03-21T16:43:00.002-07:002012-05-08T06:33:33.583-07:00Servolution Challenge<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Over the past month <a href="http://watermarkfreiburg.de/">Watermark</a> did a <a href="http://www.servolution.org/">Servolution</a> Challenge. Robin and I had in our hearts to take personal finances (and that of a few of our friends) and give every adult that wanted to participate €40. <strong>Their mission was to multiply it and go creatively serve our city.</strong> We had 60 people accept the challenge!<br />
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We even got some <strong>positive press coverage</strong> from the regional newspaper (which is not normal for independent churches). And at least two other churches (in other parts of Germany) and one nation-wide campus ministry are going to do their own version of our Servolution Challenge!<br />
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Here is a quick synopsis of SOME (not all) of the things they did:<br />
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<li>Gave Christmas presents, school supplies, books, clothes and house shoes to needy children.</li>
<li>Gave an after school program craft supplies .</li>
<li>Served volunteer firefighters breakfast.</li>
<li>Presented nursing home residents with roses.</li>
<li>Served staff NICU nurses breakfast.</li>
<li>Baked goodies for local school teachers.</li>
<li>Baked homemade cookies & muffins for a halfway house (last phase before their final release from prison) and then left flowers and 10 envelopes with IKEA gift certificates.</li>
<li>Handed out chocolate to the homeless guys in the city.</li>
<li>Took chocolate bars to the cleaning staff of the trains.</li>
<li>Delivered toys, games, Hula hoops and sidewalk chalk for a program that works with children. </li>
<li>Homeless people were given diapers, food and toiletries. </li>
<li>Helped a single unemployed mother of 3 with train cards for her kids, household items and helped her find a job! </li>
<li>Bought people at a homeless shelter groceries and household items. </li>
<li>Bought cooking utensils and a vent for a youth home so the youth can cook without a smoke-filled room.</li>
<li>Bought groceries for a known beggar who has 7 children to care for. </li>
<li>Handed out free train tickets at the station. </li>
<li>Put a case of Starbucks coffee in the fridge for hospital staff with encouraging sayings attached. </li>
<li>One team went around the city and gave flower bouquets and Cokes to all of the toilet cleaning staff at the businesses and restaurants. </li>
<li>Served a crowded refugee home by playing games with their children. They caught soap bubbles, drew w/sidewalk chalk, and painted. They talked with all of the parents and gave them coffee, chocolate, toys, pens and food. </li>
<li>Gave out board games to non-profit group that volunteers to watch intercultural children after school. </li>
<li>Gave a bag with bread, drink, eggs and flowers to a begging woman. </li>
<li>Gave a man with a big hole in his leg a bag with food, antiseptic compresses and a train ticket home. </li>
<li>Gave an unemployed shepherd a bag with dog food, some muffins and a drink. </li>
<li>Served some “punks” soft drinks and cinnamon rolls. </li>
<li>Gave workers of a special bus with a coke and some pretzels. </li>
<li>Delivered a bag of dog food to another group of “punks” sitting with a dog.</li>
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Thanks to all those that gave and those that prayed! Keep up the good work... <strong>you ARE making a HUGE difference!</strong><br />
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A special thanks to Phil Burton and <a href="http://www.citymissionktown.com/Main_Site/Home.html">City Mission Kaiserslautern</a> for helping birth this vision in us and for being cheerleaders along the way!<br />
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<b>PS. As a grand finale we did a city-wide American Easter Egg Hunt for Freiburg. More info & a video in our next post.</b>Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-43295134265636828922012-03-02T06:00:00.004-08:002012-03-02T06:33:41.424-08:00Organic small groups<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9BI-eo2rQd0ZmXvHs2zEptI2ZeB2yGhECITgXQuMprjq-0pH9onb6A8FVAR9AubquSyiTUEc4MLNfAAUHxS92RuxzePG0867nR5CncfWc6YuMUDz-mwGHXzbidpuVvQbMNTC_fKYhYZkV/s1600/biblestudy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="208" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9BI-eo2rQd0ZmXvHs2zEptI2ZeB2yGhECITgXQuMprjq-0pH9onb6A8FVAR9AubquSyiTUEc4MLNfAAUHxS92RuxzePG0867nR5CncfWc6YuMUDz-mwGHXzbidpuVvQbMNTC_fKYhYZkV/s320/biblestudy.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>We have been looking at our small group program lately. Honestly, it's not much of a program. Programs require work, organization, finances and publicity. <b>We decided from the beginning that at Watermark small groups would be encouraged, but not managed.</b> Actually, we've even challenged our people to start their own groups. I told them that if they need "official permission", they now <em>have</em> it!<br />
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We believe that being a part of a group of people that love you, pray for you and that keep you accountable is very important. This is where authentic relationships exist, which is our first core value.<br />
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We have one group of young German University students (girls) that meet in a pub. A bilingual, co-ed group meets in a dorm. A group of guys meets at different places (with the motto "What is said in this room stays this room"). And we have groups that just get together every now and then, like our worship team. They like to jam together and perform publicly as a group, as well as watching each others' gigs. The only group that we initiated is a teaching-style Bible study.<br />
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Yes, this is giving away control. And it could potentially allow a group of people to head off in the wrong direction. <b>But is leadership really all about control?</b> Or is it more about equipping, imparting into and releasing people to do what God has called THEM to do? <br />
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<b>By allowing leaders to lead naturally, instead of us creating a structure and putting them over a group, we allow their leadership gifts and talents to be developed.</b> We don't have to provide the direction, energy or structure to keep things going. And never forget <b>if the true leaders that God sends you aren't given a chance to lead within your church, they will go somewhere else.</b><br />
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Besides, if we'll just keep the team focused on our core values and our mission, those that want to hijack the vision won't gain the influence necessary to do so.<br />
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This church is really a lifeline and a family for our people. We don’t really have a lot of rules or organization, but we have a team that is so amazing... they take initiative and just make things happen. As the team grows, our people are taking others under their wings and “mentoring” them in a very natural and organic way. It is exciting to see something working very well that was only a dream 18 months ago.Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-67563228041850043122012-02-28T02:30:00.001-08:002012-02-28T02:30:55.781-08:00Don't get derailed!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUcoULBiIRqPGwTbvymHpaLu9VWjx49JuF6zKnxV7zWQAkbzj9IEWJoCXidcHS43sTtIh7eOMotT9WWGYuRWb8fPWPnnUUb9pF99UqQJrUCtNi4KEHWSmg9C-vhTmLBu4_LZhaGlbMFXbb/s1600/train-derailment.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="208" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUcoULBiIRqPGwTbvymHpaLu9VWjx49JuF6zKnxV7zWQAkbzj9IEWJoCXidcHS43sTtIh7eOMotT9WWGYuRWb8fPWPnnUUb9pF99UqQJrUCtNi4KEHWSmg9C-vhTmLBu4_LZhaGlbMFXbb/s320/train-derailment.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Last Sunday we started our <strong>Servolution</strong> at <a href="http://watermarkfreiburg.de/">Watermark</a>. For those that aren't familiar with this term, a Servolution is a church revolution through serving. It fits perfectly one of our four <strong>core values</strong>: being missional and serving others with no strings attached. In that service we gave 40 EUR to every teen and adult that committed to use it to serve someone that wouldn't or couldn't serve them in return. God put it on our hearts months ago to do this, and we were happy to do so.<br />
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In the hopes of getting many people involved, we sought to create some buzz by posting many Facebook messages, and getting our team to do the same.<br />
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One of our staff members posted both a picture and a quick thought about it. One of the guys that lives in her dorm posted a response to it on her Facebook Wall... <strong>he said it was a stupid idea and it was just a scam to make money.</strong> She explained in more detail what we were trying to accomplish, and our heart to be a church that serves. But he then posted a short clip from our initial fundraising video for the church launch (almost two years ago)... one in which I gave the expected budget and asked for people to get involved. She was so upset that she removed his comment from her Wall and continued the conversation with him privately.<br />
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It was <strong>really frustrating</strong> to us... we took out over 3500 EUR from our personal savings (and some donations from three of our close friends in the USA) to make this happen (including our kids' tuition and next month's rent). And here was someone with absolutely no clue trashing what we had put our heart and soul into. Robin made the statement: "We PAY a lot of money just for the privilege of pastoring this church!"<br />
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But God reminded me of something my mentor says, "<strong>It's the guy with the football that everyone wants to tackle.</strong>" We have to understand that if we try to get out of the box and shake things up, there WILL be opposition! Small people with small dreams will always try to crush the big dreams of others. That shouldn't ever stop us (or even slow us down) in our pursuit of God's purpose for our lives.<br />
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I saw this so clearly a few years ago... in <a href="http://bible.us/2Sam5.17.NIV">2 Samuel 5:17</a> it says that as soon as David saw the realization of his God-given dream of becoming king, their enemies - the Philistines - brought their entire army to wipe him off the face of the planet. There will always be opposition. <strong>And the bigger the dream, the greater the opposition.</strong><br />
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In the end this whole thing only made us more determined to do what God has called us to do. We don't have time to worry about our critics or what others would say. We need to stay on task: reaching the unreached of Freiburg and helping them find and fulfill their purpose in God's plan.<br />
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My encouragement to you today... <strong>don't let the opinions of others or their belittling comments derail you from pursuing God and taking risks for Him.</strong> There is much to be done and little time to do it!<br />
May God strengthen your heart and bless the effort you put into finding and completing His mission for your life!Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-6762880759918094702012-01-31T14:09:00.000-08:002012-02-01T16:30:13.166-08:00The mistakes we made...<em>I met with a prospective church planter today. As we talked he asked what mistakes I had made... he wanted to learn from them. What an excellent question! I'm going to list a few of the mistakes we've made. Maybe you can learn from them as well.</em><br />
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<ul><li>I made a decision without seeking God. Another young church wanted to rent our building on Sunday evenings. Because they were small they asked if they could have it cheap. And they wanted it immediately because their lease was up. It started out okay, but they asked for too much too soon ("Can we use it another couple of nights a week for the same price? Can we have the key? Can we use the sound system? Can we...?")</li>
<ul><li>I wanted to help them out, so I said yes without taking enough time to really seek God about it.</li>
<li>I didn't charge them enough to begin with because I wanted to help them. It was okay at first, but turned out to be difficult when we had to start charging more because of heating costs.</li>
<li>I allowed them to have a large event there without enough of our staff there to make sure everything was okay. They ended up using our personal instruments and equipment and allowing children into areas we had clearly said were off-limits (and that without supervision). The necessary conversation (confrontation) afterwards wasn't pleasant. I could've saved us all a headache had I just proceeded slowly.</li>
<li>In the end I felt just like Joshua when he was tricked. (Joshua 9) He and the elders of Israel didn't seek God about a major decision, and it cost them.</li>
<li>After some more differences of opinion, raising the rental price and frustration on both sides, we finally came to an understanding. In the end it turned out to be a good working relationship with them... but not without a high emotional cost up front which coud have been avoided had I taken it slower and prayed the situation out.</li>
<li><em><b>Lesson learned:</b></em> Take time to seek God about the decisions you have to make. And if you're uncomfortable about a decision there is probably a reason for it.</li>
</ul><li>I missed opportunities that came dressed as interruptions or inconveniences.</li>
<ul><li>One time it was a homeless person that came to our service. I spent some time talking with him and gave him some money for lunch. But as we drove away (and he walked away) I knew I was supposed to have given him a ride, taken him out to eat with my family and brought to the train station and bought him a ticket. I was tired, so I passed up a God-given opportunity to minister to this young man.</li>
<li>Another time I was at the Freiburg main train station. I had already missed the train I was supposed to catch to take me home. Now I was hanging out at McDonalds working through my emails, awaiting the last train out of town for the night. 10 minutes before my train came I packed up my stuff to go. Then I noticed a teenager at the next table that was obviously bored. He was playing with his phone and with the tray his food had been on. I felt as if I should talk with him, but I chose instead to make sure I caught my train so I could be back with my family. It was good to be back with my family, but definitely a bad choice. I had disobeyed God.</li>
<li><em><b>Lesson learned:</b></em> Never disobey what God puts in your heart to do. I'll never know what could have come from each of those opportunities. But I am determined to obey God the next time!</li>
</ul><li>I didn't confront as quickly or decisively as I should have.</li>
<ul><li>We had a very talented team member that was sort of a "diva". Everything had to always be about this person... whether it was prayer, or it was music, or whatever. They were happy to serve, but when they were serving, they took the most "high status" serving position. Because this person was immature, I used "kiddie gloves" with them because I thought they couldn't take it (instead of being brutally honest with them, which would have led to quicker growth in their lives... or possibly to them leaving). In the end, when they left I realized I had helped them grow, but not as much as I could have. I partially wasted the time we had with them.</li>
<li>I realized I was too patient with this person, and with others. As a leader I am responsible for helping my team grow... at times this means I need to be brutally honest with people and hold them accountable. That's not always the best thing to do, but in this case, it was definitely the right thing.</li>
<li><em><b>Lesson learned:</b></em> When I don't confront people, I am not honoring them enough to help them grow. It shows that I am valuing their gifts or talents more than I value them as a person. And Jim Collins writes that when we allow a person to remain on the team that is either a low performer, or has a bad attitude, it hurts the team morale. And you lose credibility with your top performers because they can see that this person either needs to be retrained, repositioned or removed.</li>
</ul><li>I invested too much time and energy in the wrong people because I saw their potential. </li>
<ul><li>We had people on the team that were highly talented, but not very motivated. When it comes to the church, I am a talent scout... I enjoy finding talented people and encouraging them to develop their gifts and use them to further the Kingdom of God. The problem is that I sometimes spend too much time trying to motivate unmotivated but gifted people. I see the potential of their gifts so I work hard to bring it out. I guess I think that if I can get them using their gifts for God they'll realize how exciting it is to be used by God to help others and jump in with all their heart. Unfortunately this isn't usually the case.</li>
<li>When I focus on this kind of person, it ends up wearing <em>me</em> out. These kinds of people are often like black holes... they consume resources but don't give anything.</li>
<li><em><b>Lesson learned:</b></em> I should have looked for willingness to apply what they heard rather than ability. I have a responsbility to invest where I get the most return. It's the most responsible way to invest the gifts God has given me. I only have so much energy, time, prayer, finances, etc to give. I need to spend (invest) them wisely.</li>
<li>Jesus talks about how people respond to the Gospel in Mark 4 (Parable of the Sower). Some reject it. Some receive it with joy immediately, but later walk away when times get tough. Still others receive the message, but life's care and worries choke out its effectiveness.</li>
<li>Finally, there are some which He calls "good ground". They receive the message, take it to heart, apply it and produce fruit. But even then, some only produce 30% of what they are capable of. Others produce only 60% of what they are capable of. And some produce to their full potential. This last group is where we should be investing the lion's share of our time.</li>
<li>Some will say this isn't fair. But even Jesus chose only 12 from among the multitudes. And only three of them went everywhere with Him. He didn't concern Himself with what was fair. He knew what He was doing, and invested the most in His top people.</li>
</ul></ul><em>I hope these thoughts have helped you process some of the struggles you will face. My prayer is that you as a church planter come to the right place at the right time with the right people to build a thriving, life-giving church.</em>Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-70899622660799395572012-01-12T03:45:00.000-08:002012-01-12T04:02:50.358-08:00Launch BrochureBecause we have a number of church planters asking us about how we started, I thought I'd post our pre-launch fundraising brochure. We had this professionally produced. Feel free to use any of the ideas in this brochure... just as we have borrowed ideas from other friends that have successfully planted churches.<br />
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Yes, it cost a lot to print this (the initial printing cost was about $2.00 per brochure), but one of the marketing points Robin always makes is that you've got to spend money to make money. We eventually figured out how to get it printed for less than $1.00 per brochure, but it took some research and a lot of favor with a printing company manager.<br />
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The point is that serious investors are used to having something professional in their hands to look at and think about (and pray about). The more professionally done it is, the more it captures their attention. And the more it presents us as legitimate church planters that have the ability to succeed... a cause worthy of their consideration. <br />
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No one wants to invest in a losing cause. They want a return on their investment, even if that return is souls won into the Kingdom of God and churches planted.<br />
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We ended up printing about 350 of these and handing them out to pastors and people that had the ability to give sizable donations.<br />
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Please don't misunderstand me... we handed something to everyone that showed interest in supporting our church launch. But our relatives and friends didn't need a fancy brochure to convince them that we were legitimate. They just needed to be able to get to the information, which was already online in the form of a website. We had sharp business cards printed up with the relevant contact information and website address on them.<br />
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<i>The brochure below is just a web-friendly version. Click on the link at the bottom to download or see the high-quality version.</i><br />
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And we approached handing out the postcards in two ways...<br />
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* We stuffed 4500 mailboxes in our neighborhood (not illegal in Germany, but labor-intensive)<br />
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* Our team handed out 1000 postcards downtown during orientation week at Freiburg University<br />
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We found that people are more willing to take them if you have a group handing them out (five or so people in the same area)… then it doesn't seem so "cult-like". And we give them a small piece of chocolate as well (the mini chocolate bars that you get at IKEA are cheap). Everyone wants free chocolate! I just tell people, "Schocki [Schokolade]… umsonst!" or "Free chocolate!" <i>It helps if you approach it positively, as if they <b>should</b> take the chocolate because it's free. If you act as if you know you're bothering them, they will avoid you like the plague!</i><br />
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When they look at the postcard (which I have turned face down so they aren't freaked out by the word "Kirche" [church] on the front), I tell them it's just an invitation to join us for our grand opening. We want to get the word out and free chocolate is the easiest way to do so. <br />
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Then if people ask about the church, I tell them the reason we are giving something with no strings attached is that we want to be the kind of church that represents the Jesus of the Bible… He always gave with no strings attached.<br />
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<i>It's important to note that we also used targeted Facebook ads, which were successful for brand recognition. This cost us more, but placed our logo and an ad in front of hundreds of thousands of Freiburg-area young adults. By setting our "click through" rate high, our ad was the first one that our target audience saw when they logged on to Facebook.</i><br />
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<i>We experimented with different wording on the ads to see which were most effective in getting click throughs. American Pastor seemed to generate the most clicks. When they clicked on our ad, they were redirected to a "landing page" on our website that promoted the church launch service in German and English.</i>Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-37159158791936053482011-10-18T04:40:00.001-07:002011-10-18T08:16:54.620-07:00Thoughts on Church Planting and Church Government<div align="left" style="color: #000088; text-align: right;"><img alt="Watermark Logo" border="" class="" height="169" src="http://watermarkfreiburg.de/upload/WatermarkCrop.jpg" style="float: left; margin: 5px;" title="" width="300" /><span style="color: black;"></span><br />
<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: black;">When it came time to setup the legal association for Watermark, we followed the ARC (<a href="http://relatedchurches.com/">http://relatedchurches.com</a>) model within a European context. This means <strong>we have an internal Council and an external Board</strong>. The Council consists of seasoned believers within our church that are "on-board" with the vision and core values, and are able to think out of the box. They have no voting rights, but are there to help me think through issues we are facing and offer suggestions.</span></div></div><br />
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<div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;">The Board is made up of voting members (from other European cities). They are all seasoned ministers that are well-respected and that I've known for a long time (and that know me and my heart well). I explained to them at length </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;">what we had in our heart to create and how we wanted to proceed</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"> to make sure they understood clearly before I asked them to be on our Board.</span></div><span style="color: black;"> <br />
<div style="text-align: left;">I learned a long time ago not to have people in your church be your voting members until you've firmly established who you are, both as a team and as a church. You need to have freedom to be able to tweak the vision, core values, etc. As you find what works for you, and you get a better idea of who are your "seed planted in good ground" people (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Mark%204:8&version=NCV">Mark 4:8</a>), you can begin to add people within your church to the "voting membership". </div><br />
<div style="text-align: left;">I've seen good pastors in Germany get voted out because of a manipulator that is power hungry. I believe most church splits are caused by those that are "planted in rocky soil" (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Mark%204:5-6&version=NCV">Mark 4:5-6</a>), meaning they get involved quickly with a lot of excitement, but when times get tough, they try to steer the church in the direction of what makes them comfortable, or keeps them in the spotlight (or in a position of authority). They are totally with you until you do something they don't like.</div></span></div><br />
<div align="left" style="color: #000088; text-align: right;"><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: black;">People that have a vote need to be people that are <b>mature enough to understand</b> what God is calling you and your church to become, <b>confident enough to challenge</b> you (when necessary), and <b>humble enough to pray</b> it out (rather than fight/manipulate) and <b>make decisions that are in the best interests of the church</b>. </span></div></div><br />
<div align="left" style="color: #000088; text-align: right;"><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: black;">And if anyone ever tells you they want to be in the voting membership, you DON'T WANT them in the voting membership! <b>You want people that will make decisions based on those that haven't yet come through the doors.</b> You want people who vote that understand it's not about them, but about those that are far from God (those that Jesus misses most).</span></div></div><br />
<div align="left" style="color: #000088; text-align: right;"><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: black;">I tell my team and my church that if they have a problem with me they are welcome to contact my Board and take it up with them. I am submitted to my Board, and will adjust, if necessary.</span></div></div>Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-36561356970980469192011-07-22T13:51:00.000-07:002011-07-22T13:51:52.932-07:00Break-in!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiSVYPH_xeNnyPAEWAz-KeCAtablEIcrjsWtgomO8_Fh23oVCZX7gmGRgWHrtvKgG7We19SdoqzmeO54Hye0hIWaGO3NEyFtaxPi9Fe77VZ40yC-yROT5GMQiHiBSm_VFiyzTiBHIlC92KT/s1600/smash-grab.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiSVYPH_xeNnyPAEWAz-KeCAtablEIcrjsWtgomO8_Fh23oVCZX7gmGRgWHrtvKgG7We19SdoqzmeO54Hye0hIWaGO3NEyFtaxPi9Fe77VZ40yC-yROT5GMQiHiBSm_VFiyzTiBHIlC92KT/s1600/smash-grab.jpg" /></a></div><br />
As you may already know, <b><a href="http://watermarkfreiburg.de/">our church</a> was broken into last Sunday night</b>. The thief (or thieves) kicked in the office door and stole two guitars, two laptops, a bike, a camera and an iPod, and some other smaller items.<br />
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It has been quite frustrating trying to figure out how to do ministry without some of our basic equipment. We are working on getting replacements, loaners, new stuff, etc. And it's been an experience learning how law enforcement and insurance works in Germany.<br />
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We have decided <b>this is a great time to obey God's Word</b>. Jesus said,<br />
<blockquote><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">“But I say to you who are listening, love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, <b>pray for those who are cruel to you</b>. - Luke 6:27-28</span></blockquote>We have been praying that God bless and help those that did this. As we were doing so the other day, Robin felt as if God was using this situation to reach the people involved. It was as if there was <b>no one praying for them</b>. And although God didn't cause this to happen, He will use it to bring about good for everyone involved... especially since we're actively praying and inviting Him into the situation.<br />
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Actually, the first Scripture to come to my heart when I first learned of the break-in was written by the Apostle Paul...<br />
<blockquote><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">I want you brothers and sisters to know that <b>what has happened to me has helped to spread the Good News</b>. - Philippians 1:12</span></blockquote>We are excited to see the <b>redemptive ending</b> God will bring about as we continue to pray. God is good and is able to bring good out of bad things.Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-89518396654450646712011-05-04T23:33:00.000-07:002011-05-04T23:37:35.393-07:00Still Amazed!New Perrin Ministries blog posted about our Easter weekend outreaches - "Still Amazed!"<br />
<a href="http://perrinministries.blogspot.com/">http://perrinministries.blogspot.com</a>Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-84816279363641984822011-04-22T02:05:00.000-07:002012-01-12T03:57:03.946-08:00Spring<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Californian FB";">Spring is my favorite time of year. Winter is usually cold and dark in Germany. The days are extremely short and dark. But, in Spring and Summer, the scenery is so beautiful in the Black Forest, and this part of the country is known to be the sunniest (and therefore, the friendliest) part of Germany. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Californian FB";">The reason that this is my favorite season is not only the weather and flowers, but Easter! Jesus’ birth is celebrated at Christmas. It’s a wonderful time that I feel we have really turned into something other than a celebration of Jesus. But, Easter….it’s a celebration of just Him and what he did on the cross for us! Not only did Jesus live a perfect life day after day, year after year, but after 33 years of this perfect life….he gave it up for us! At Easter, he paid the ultimate price. God paid the ultimate price for us, the riff raff of society. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Californian FB";">Jesus was beaten beyond recognition of even looking like a man- so we could have healthy bodies. His blood that poured out at the cross was to make sure that we could be forgiven….that we could experience the unbelievable joy of being in the very presence of His father! Jesus knew that if he sacrificed himself for us, that it would produce a harvest of believers that would span the course of time. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Californian FB";">On Easter, we celebrate when Jesus rose from the grave. When he rose, he gave us hope! I LOVE THIS SEASON! It makes me cry every time I think of Jesus’ sacrifice and the joy in His resurrection! He layed down everything for us…so that we could enjoy everything that God had given to Him! That’s what the season means for me. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Californian FB";">People are so open to the things of God at Christmas and Easter. Let’s tell everyone we know! </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Californian FB";">Robin</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Californian FB";"><u><b>Watermark Easter</b></u></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Californian FB";">We are going to have a huge Easter egg hunt and festival (carnival) for the at-risk kids in our neighborhood this Easter. We are going to tell them about what Jesus did for them through eggs, juggling, carnival booths, clowns and balloons. Our church is in the middle of what we would call "the projects". There are so many cultures represented in this area because of the large immigrant population. I can't wait to see what God will do with this outreach!</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div>Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-59624988847818442602011-03-29T03:49:00.001-07:002011-03-29T03:49:04.356-07:00Not traditional enough?<p>We had a visit a few weeks ago by a German lady that doesn’t attend any church… and hasn’t since she was young.  She and her wife live on our street.  Her wife loves the church and comes when she doesn’t have to work.</p> <p>After the church service, she talked with Robin about our church.  She asked why we aren’t more “traditional”.  This lady wasn’t offended, but <strong>she thinks a church service should be more like what she was used to in the Catholic Church of her childhood</strong>.</p> <p>Which brings up the “why” question… <strong>why aren’t we more traditional?</strong>  </p> <p>I believe my wife gave her an amazing answer…  </p> <blockquote> <p>Robin told her that I grew up in the Catholic Church and she grew up in the Episcopal Church, with all the traditions, liturgical chants, etc.  None of that meant anything to her until she had an encounter with Jesus.  <strong>She never encountered Him in the church she grew up in (nor did I).</strong></p> <p>But once she went back to her old church, she was amazed at all the Scripture they used.  There was so much there that could have led her to a relationship with Christ.  But <strong>it never meant anything to her because the church and its style were so far removed from her daily life.</strong></p> </blockquote> <p>The reason for our style of church services is so that a normal person off the street can completely connect with Jesus without having had a church background.  <strong>Our church is designed to be accessible to the common man, woman and child.</strong></p> <p>We want people to experience God in all His wonder and grace and build relationships with authentic Christians.  We want people to experience a God that is holy, but is absolutely loving… a God that isn’t afraid of fun, and that wants to be involved in our daily lives.</p> <p>And it’s working!</p> Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-46848020034071824802011-03-07T13:36:00.001-08:002011-03-07T13:36:55.847-08:00Avoiding team frustration<p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIBDpRzDk-rAjOZ4UGFcD8Q3KCTP68RK2iiCb1LIyLtE7SZKEK4us4whBLYZxtiOFUlQrdsawdWt5Jzk1hNMYuBRCqEKW0QIMv2lWhiRdRwncrRnwKqEkPjEKFcPsMudFrPpqlSdn9W47E/s1600-h/image%5B3%5D.png"><img style="background-image: none; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; float: left; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px" title="image" border="0" alt="image" align="left" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_I8MJC9XhILNcGX6Dv5Br5JxjcuVlJULrIjYFo8OWpzri_BRgj7cbZmuxkmu9VLLavgUNwmb72btW_VZukScQYsci6ZqiqLDsbFZO5C7k_Yfddjz0PgetjdyPduvv7nxupzJkaEf3v3gn/?imgmax=800" width="168" height="168" /></a>We’ve recently realized that one of the most important areas we’ve neglected so far is <strong>failing to train our team members</strong> in every area where they will be serving.  And it’s caused some frustration for them.</p> <p>It’s been so long since we first started serving in a church (almost 30 years ago) that <strong>we’ve forgotten what it feels like to be new</strong>.  We’ve been doing this so long that we automatically see what needs to be done.  We’re so used to seeing the big picture that we’ve failed to always set our team up to succeed in the small areas.</p> <p>We’ve also noticed that just because someone says they have a level of expertise in an area doesn’t mean they have the level we need… <strong>or that their estimation of their abilities is necessarily the same as ours</strong>.  Not that they aren’t doing well, but that we need to invest more time/energy in training.</p> <p>We’ve done a good job at giving the vision, especially the overarching dream of building a church for those that don’t do church.  But we’ve not done a very good job of training in the specific areas.</p> <p>So we’re going to be focusing on <strong>doing more coaching in the individual areas</strong> over the coming weeks and months.  We’ll be <strong>bringing in some experts and trainers to help raise their level of expertise and their ability to succeed</strong>.</p> <p>I believe this, more than anything else, will help the undercurrent of frustration that we’ve been sensing.  <strong>Our encouragement to church planters</strong>… setup a plan to train people in EVERY area where they will be serving.  Then those that are doing well can train others to do it.  We can’t afford to just plug our people into an area and hope they figure it out.</p> Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-40285444122362697742011-02-25T01:20:00.001-08:002011-02-25T01:20:58.973-08:00Encouraged, yet frustrated…<p>As with any startup church, one of the biggest issues is finances.  And especially with a church like ours that is focused on reaching the unchurched and the “de-churched” (those that have walked away from traditional churches), we have to fight the typical stereotype that churches only want people’s money.  This has been a frustration for us, but we knew this was a part of church planting.</p> <p>But in the things that truly count – people committing their life to Christ, changed lives and people getting excited about using their gifts to impact Freiburg – Watermark is doing really well.  Last Sunday we saw one of our church neighbors give her heart to Christ.  She was invited by one of our team the week before.</p> <p>And the week before that, a man that told me he is NOT a believer came to church because an angel appeared to him in a dream and told him to come visit our church.  He loved it!  He took a bunch of business cards and said he would invite all of his friends.  He came back last week and was just as excited.</p> <p>Please continue to pray for Watermark… God is doing great things here and we’re excited to be a part of it!</p> Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-8416956799994652762011-02-25T00:59:00.001-08:002011-02-25T00:59:45.581-08:00Free Bible Study Discussion Guides!<p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgu7Mro9RZzYssR1Qf97GIf1Y5x-41K45C_W8fSvnq179rkIpV1ZXjNEkKOVk2HHp-I2q85Zcbq4sSF9Tma0JC7KpTCA0xjx-9J-nPMEWJUBosvuF4MaI9WF7E7NskYu-zzjZgpdqgMoGFg/s1600-h/image%5B2%5D.png"><img style="background-image: none; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; float: left; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px" title="image" border="0" alt="image" align="left" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiChYwJNQigWXyj0n5sJv6edgGaonWsvbY0iBx3dRnvHKsden5KPJZxWYwaWRSnZvi1Ip0N4lpI_yNeMW9Jm7tjhNuqIs3Fk36CvFQkTgdu_-O-67EMqTtg5kG_xnsI7Hy52t9ht-2RrC7N/?imgmax=800" width="244" height="163" /></a></p> <p>A few years ago Robin and I wrote a series of Bible Study Discussion Guides for a local church in Bonn, Germany.  The small group program at this church had become basically teaching groups (old school Bible studies).</p> <p>In an effort to revitalize the small group program, we started writing our own curriculum, which was translated into German.  <strong>The purpose of these Discussion Guides is to both build relationships and learn spiritual principles</strong>.  The result was better than we expected!</p> <p>We have <strong>an entire year’s worth of weekly Small Group lessons (52 lessons)</strong> in 4 main themes (including 26 lessons on Spiritual Disciplines). <strong> And</strong> <strong>we want to </strong><a href="http://perrinministries.org/upload/DiscussionGuides%28EN%29/DiscussionGuides-EN.zip"><strong>give them away for free.</strong></a> </p> <p>Click on this link to download the free Discussion Guides (zip file): <a href="http://perrinministries.org/upload/DiscussionGuides%28EN%29/DiscussionGuides-EN.zip">Small Group Discussion Guides (English)</a></p> Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-47936705598471063682011-02-14T03:10:00.001-08:002011-02-18T06:16:44.923-08:00Miraculous week at Watermark!<p>This past week was <strong>amazing</strong>!  A week ago Sunday one of our newest team members asked us to pray for her knee.  She had <strong>torn her ACL through a bicycle crash</strong> and was told she <strong>needed surgery</strong>.  She was hobbling around with a stiff brace.</p> <p>Well, we prayed for her and then she went to a specialist.  He told her he couldn’t find the tear.  He saw the other doctor’s report, with precise description of the damage, but <strong>couldn’t find any damage on the newer MRI</strong>.  He basically said, “Have a great life… you don’t need me!”</p> <p>And then some of our team prayed for a lady that had such <strong>bad arthritis pain in her arm</strong> that it had become unusable.  This is especially bad because she needs to be able to use her arm for the retirement home where she volunteers. So she asked us to pray for her Wednesday night at our Bible study.</p> <p>She awoke Thursday morning with <strong>no pain in that arm whatsoever</strong>!</p> <p>And on Sunday morning, one of our team members was having a lot of <strong>headache pain and concentration problems because of a concussion</strong> he’d received the week before.  When we prayed for him, he said <strong>the pain was instantly gone!</strong></p> <p>But the wildest thing was that a visitor came on Sunday that had been invited by one of our team.  I had the strangest conversation with this man.</p> <p>He told me that <strong>he didn’t believe Jesus was “the way”.</strong>  He instead believed in “the truth”… a universal truth that is overarching, whatever you want to call it.  <strong>He felt that Jesus was someone who showed us how to know “the truth”.</strong></p> <p>Anyway, on Saturday night he had a dream where <strong>an angel appeared to him.  The angel revealed to him that he should go to </strong><a href="http://watermarkfreiburg.de" target="_blank"><strong>Watermark</strong></a><strong> on Sunday.</strong></p> <p>He told me <strong>he LOVED the service.</strong>  Since he’s a musician, he really connected with our worship team (all professional musicians!).  And apparently my message on what love REALLY is connected with what he’s been “feeling” lately.  As he said, “Love is just another expression of the truth.”  <strong>God is so creative in reaching people far from Him!</strong></p> <p>And then he told me he had grabbed a bunch of business cards and was <strong>bringing all of his friends</strong>!</p> <p><strong>Keep praying</strong>… you’re helping us change the spiritual landscape here in Freiburg, where <strong>less than 1% of the population has a personal relationship with Christ, or attend a life-giving church.</strong></p> Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-74026998655343107272011-02-14T02:39:00.001-08:002011-02-14T02:39:49.869-08:00Baby dedication<p>A few weeks ago I was privileged to have our first Watermark baby dedication<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhj9c29Uaemzekghg4WitZWl6GNOU22dSmA9sqw7n89w57G5GarfBPSEiIzr44A-QLedhTdm9kx68iNAIIldanW5UM_lXbcMDJnTIGOKPsL3VIzJbMhbBa-YMa4wrue_n1TDTPOQ5GNf7eL/s1600-h/IMG_0950%5B3%5D.jpg"><img style="background-image: none; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; margin: 5px 0px 5px 5px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; float: right; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px" title="IMG_0950" border="0" alt="IMG_0950" align="right" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSnavl8Mb-qa1gwFuMf2HFQTyEZxu8XIUiHrh9EkoPHOI2vi6n47xVaDLznqsCHQ3ktlDsToWLUucLsea0mGQxxm6UwAjbT9BDwTXVkU5ujx-jedXRlN0F23XDuvs8l88J9F7D3vf4zWYY/?imgmax=800" width="244" height="184" /></a>.  Noah and Malin’s parents committed to raise them to know and love God.</p> <p>In dedicating a baby, it’s important to note that we are not determining their salvation. We are celebrating with the parents as they commit to raising their children to love God.</p> <p>And we as a church committed to praying for them as well.  As all parents know, raising kids is hard.. and they NEED our prayers.</p> <p>What a cool day this was!</p> <p>PS. At <a href="http://watermarkfreiburg.de" target="_blank">Watermark</a> kids are incredibly important!  God has called us to not only be a safe place for kids, He’s called us to be a place where they are valued and treasured.  Thank God for the incredible kids ministry team God has given us!</p> Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-33142985143525655592010-12-20T06:00:00.000-08:002010-12-20T06:00:11.252-08:00The Purpose of Christmas<p>I wrote an article entitled The Purpose of Christmas a few years ago... and thought you might enjoy it.  Here's a little teaser...</p> <blockquote> <p>I gave in. <strong></strong><em><strong>What was I thinking? </strong></em>My wife asked (begged) me to go shopping with her on the day after Thanksgiving.  My answer?  Ok, sure.  What was I thinking?!?!  I hate shopping!  Even worse, I had agreed to go with her on the busiest shopping day of the year.  The only reason I can come up with is that if she went, I would be at home alone with all three kids ALL DAY LONG!  Oh well…</p> <p>What I experienced last Friday was UGLY!  People were pushing, adults were fighting over toys & parking spaces (we saw two guys almost get in a fist fight over a parking space), and sales people were rude.  Honestly, it wasn’t all bad.  There were some people that seemed to have some perspective, but not many we ran into.</p> <p>A bright spot in our day was when we were seated in a restaurant next to a new mom & her baby.  It just so happened that since our sitter was kind of young, we had our baby with us too.  She and Robin struck up a conversation and it wasn’t long before our conversation turned to spiritual things.  She was feeling guilty and alone (as an unwed mother).  We were able to share about Christ’s love and we invited her to visit our church.  It was a total God-ordained appointment.</p> <p>Anyway, the whole consumer-driven, commercialized theme of the holiday shopping rush always seems to frustrate me.  I keep asking myself, “Don’t they get it?”  I mean… do they really think that’s what Christmas is all about?  If we look at the Christmas story from its original source, the Bible, we can determine the true meaning of Christmas.  Let’s look at it.  There are two biblical accounts to look at, <a href="http://bible.gospelcom.net/bible?version=NIV&passage=Matthew+1:18-2:19">Matthew 1:18-2:19</a> and <a href="http://bible.gospelcom.net/bible?version=NIV&passage=Luke+1:5-2:40">Luke 1:5-2:40</a>.</p> </blockquote> <p><a title="The Purpose of Christmas" href="http://www.perrinministries.org/pmwp/?p=934" target="_blank">To read it online, click here.</a></p> Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-47878948584911546442010-11-29T16:26:00.001-08:002010-11-29T16:31:09.322-08:00Changed little lives<p>At Watermark we are <b>highly focused on children’s ministry</b>.  They will get high quality resources and leaders. When it comes to a choice between buying something for our kids and buying sound equipment, we always default to purchasing stuff for our kids.  This is paying off richly!!!  <b>In the past six weeks, three kids have come to Christ!</b></p> <p>One of them is a high-energy little guy… a happy go lucky, fun little dude named Alex.  But sometimes he is also an EGR child (Extra Grace Required).  He and his little sister live across the street from the church building, and their mom and dad take turns coming with them… sometimes the children even come by themselves. </p> <p>One afternoon as Robin was praying for Alex, God showed her a glimpse of <b>what his life could look like</b>.  She pictured him as an adult and what he would tell someone about how he came to Christ.   </p> <p>She pictured him as a young adult telling about this church that started across the street from where he lived.  He said, “I don’t even remember anyone’s name there, but that’s where people loved me and were happy to see me!  I gave my heart to Christ and I’ve never been the same since!”</p> <p>Actually, last Sunday, Alex did give his heart to Christ!  And his sister did so the week before.</p> Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-77467074088671500282010-11-23T14:52:00.001-08:002010-11-23T14:58:36.861-08:00Pictures from last Sunday<p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiY9FL8xZGGQ7B7miAgM4kGHU-i0sDnGY1F2LXhphK4IQxRyNjQfQSbwux6IAz3GX0xbEiLID4PktvZ4SiAh_oIwEcPuQxd_XPeESJWux42FpUt3X4KU0Du7Nt-_IqWftv8tZKcnPnfxOQV/s1600-h/WhatitMeanstobeaChristian_TITLE2.jpg"><img style="background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; margin: 0px 5px 0px 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; float: left; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px" title="WhatitMeanstobeaChristian_TITLE" border="0" alt="WhatitMeanstobeaChristian_TITLE" align="left" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrSnFHQFxjWV59DwOhZfIc6zo6_KmaMFSqD921ALq3-QAL2hgIxIjbY4KuFKe1OqN6MWBbRDu5G1_asinbLA_T3W4J8PrxSZXIwQ9mK5p4fHy2cYuVupBY0m24_pAGD2qyOVSdemSXRab6/?imgmax=800" width="244" height="139" /></a>We had a lot of fun last Sunday looking at many of the things people think a Christian is.  We used a lot of props to represent these things.  And Daniel made the perfect illustration of what many people think a real Christian should look like!</p> <p>Be sure to come back this weekend to see part 2 of “What it means to be a Christian”!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeq6rz5JW8YabSf-HGP7qnAoJuPhmvUJ93PvpsIlAOn4OBuTQZv0HYt6vGw3aYs5G6COlMbV5aWCnZ_cmVMAC8g2ZB3GlxyCweB4n6p9miM5y9wsZlkztrK3vyzw2Ph1mqZ1_l4turQn0h/s1600-h/DSC027363.jpg"><img style="background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; margin: 5px 0px 0px 5px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; float: right; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px" title="DSC02736" border="0" alt="DSC02736" align="right" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-EJ8U6ruzyoj89wn8lC-MSOZpjWtIiJkgpPStUlbfXlggeyyZaeA6VeT3KMhRsimhLxIAFUFloc6WAVznt9m-fsQ5MM_VsKKxHUKxX-HNMsssxKiADuHXguf0o0HVLJ9Sek4oQFPPd_HF/?imgmax=800" width="244" height="184" /></a></p> <p>Wir hatten letzten Sonntag riesen Spaß, als wir uns angeschaut haben, was viele Menschen denken, was einen Christen ausmacht.</p> <p>Wir haben das, ohne es respektlos erscheinen zu lassen, veranschaulicht. Daniel hat das perfekt illustriert, was viele Menschen denken, wie ein echter Christ aussehen müsse!</p> <p>Sei dieses Wochenende wieder dabei um dir Teil 2 von "Was es bedeutet, ein Christ zu sein!" anzuschauen!</p> Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8441295010846712384.post-83546193552263365162010-11-09T13:18:00.001-08:002010-11-09T13:34:59.408-08:00A Sabbath rest for pastors<p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPL8O7BWqNL6_nUmx06v4KDUhW0mXw1W_h2kkBq_fhGnl739a7_5ON_9LaP5r7e0TbN8eZXMUjtDFBZvp8D1VawyMUssjncIH-ZJct22ziv5EU9x_D4aZ8hoe5Qi7MlA4zRa64c8c7v5hA/s1600-h/hammock%5B2%5D.jpg"><img style="background-image: none; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; margin: 2px 6px 4px 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; float: left; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px" title="hammock" border="0" alt="hammock" align="left" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXR2G7mhyuj2OVQzXkDi8KrRzdP-sz8LcGtySdE3Qy8zVjI4vzHgeufnPMKwsSdfLbxV566QyG8dbqeRZ4LgFlt0JA5NAjQGdxQeFR6PeQb6qw3Xol_VtPQtDG4mp6NxQ7xgq2FcxG0ROr/?imgmax=800" width="244" height="164" /></a>It's Monday... the day of rest for many pastors. Because we don't get Sundays off like everyone else, we need to choose another day.</p> <p>Actually, taking a day off is one of the Ten Commandments... <br />  <br />“Remember to keep the Sabbath holy." - Exodus 20:8.  </p> <p>The biblical term is "Sabbath".  It was commanded by God so the people would take a day off to rest and enjoy, rather than just working seven days a week.  And notice that God tells us to keep it holy... He places a spiritual value on it.  </p> <p>Last week I took my first Sabbath rest in over three months.  Because of all that had to be done I just worked seven days a week.  I knew planting a church would be difficult, but I never realized just how difficult.  There were people to be contacted, calls to be made, emails to send, chairs, children's and musical equipment to be ordered, meetings with our team, city officials and neighbors... The list could go on and on.</p> <p>Two weeks ago God really started dealing with me about the importance of taking a Sabbath, as He had commanded.  I know the importance of this - I even teach pastors about it.  But it's difficult in the real world to take a true day of rest. <em>(My wife says I should be actually be taking a break from writing this.)</em>  And although my first day of rest was a welcomed break, today has been tough.  It seems as if there's more to do than ever.</p> <p>It all comes down to faith... faith that God will enable us to do more in the remaining six days than we could have done in seven days.  This is not easy.  But God calls us to trust Him.  And He knows what is best for us.  The Bible says that Jesus came "to give us life - more and better life than we could ever have on our own!"  If we believe this, we’ll do what He says…</p> <p>So pastors, now you have a choice... Will you obey and take a Sabbath?  Or will you keep on doing what we've been doing?</p> Jon and Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03904518316099516324noreply@blogger.com0